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Self-Care

How Systemic Homophobia Impacts our Mental Health.

Systemic homophobia permeates many facets of society, casting long shadows over the mental health and well-being of LGBTQ+ individuals. This deep-seated prejudice is not confined to overt acts of discrimination; it infiltrates institutions, cultural norms, and social interactions, creating an environment where being gay is often fraught with fear and anxiety. In this blog post, we will explore the detrimental effects of systemic homophobia on mental health, particularly focusing on its manifestations in the military, its entanglement with rape culture, and its broader roots in patriarchal structures. We will also delve into the transformative potential of therapy and the interplay between queering and decolonization as pathways to healing.

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Stop with the Foreboding Joy.

The world often feels like it’s teetering on the edge of chaos, and finding moments of genuine joy can be both a blessing and a burden. We’re conditioned to believe that happiness should come with a caveat, a whispered warning that reminds us of past pain or the suffering of others. This phenomenon, beautifully articulated by research professor Brene Brown, is what she terms “foreboding joy.” It’s the fear that accompanies moments of happiness, the nagging sense that something bad is just around the corner, waiting to snatch away our newfound bliss. Here, we explore how to access joy authentically without the fear.

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A Guide to Queer Identity for BIPOC Women

Welcome to a much-needed conversation about the intricate journey of navigating LGBTQ identity as a woman of color. In a world where identities intersect and intertwine, the experiences of LGBTQ women of color are as diverse as they are complex. This blog post seeks to shed light on the unique challenges, triumphs, and nuances faced by LGBTQ women of color as they navigate the intersections of race, gender, and sexual orientation. 

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Culturally Sensitive Boundary Setting

In a Westernized world where individualism is celebrated and encouraged, the concept of setting boundaries can be a challenging and complex terrain to navigate, especially for women of color. As members of communities that often prioritize family and collective well-being over personal desires, finding the middle ground between self-care and cultural obligations becomes crucial. Here, we will explore the significance of boundary setting within the context of cultural sensitivity, focusing particularly on the experiences of women of color in the United States.

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Trauma Therapy for Intimate Partner Violence

Intimate Partner Violence (IPV) is a multifaceted issue deeply rooted in power dynamics, societal norms, and individual psychology. Despite increased awareness, there still exists a significant reluctance to label certain behaviors as abusive or toxic within intimate relationships. This reluctance often stems from societal misconceptions, personal biases, and the complexities of human empathy, particularly when the perpetrator exhibits signs of remorse or struggles with their own mental health issues. In this blog post, we delve into the nuances of IPV, explore the hesitance to recognize various forms of abuse, and highlight the role of trauma therapy in fostering understanding and healing.

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Grieving a Space and How Grief Counseling Helps

Grief is a universal human experience, a complex emotional journey that manifests in various forms and intensities. Here, we will explore the profound impact of moving on one’s emotional well-being, the challenges of grieving spaces left behind, and the strategies to navigate the intricate process of healing. We often think about what it means to grieve a person, but what about when we’re grieving a place?

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