Do you consider yourself a supportive, compassionate, and respectful person always ready to do whatever it takes to please others? If so, know that the cost of keeping everyone happy is not negligible. It can take a serious toll on you (if it already hasn’t). There are times you must put yourself first and learn how to say NO. If you are not certain how, let us provide you with a few valuable pointers. Gender-Based Roles or Why Women Tend to Please More While people-pleasing behavior can be seen in both sexes, studies have shown that it’s more common for women. It doesn’t come as a surprise considering that we live in a patriarchal society full of gender-based stereotypes. Although we have made strides in breaking down these notions, in […]
Read PostThe world has gone crazy. At least it feels that way sometimes. We never imagined all the stress that would heap upon us, from the Coronavirus pandemic to racial injustices in our own backyard and political crises spanning the whole globe. The question is how to deal with all the bad in the world, when you know that these events must not be taken for granted, especially if you’re a minority. How to Deal With All the Bad News in the World Watching how far-right extreme political movements take over may be something that causes you a deep sense of worry, fear, or anxiety. Terrible things are happening in the world today, while we are being bombarded with tons of negative information daily. Whether it’s on social media or on […]
Read PostThe impact of social media becomes greater every day and the effect is visible for every person with a smartphone. We love our memes, tweets, stories, and posts, and we love seeing what other people are doing, but we also hear about (or feel) anxiety, depression, and addiction to social media. Let’s tackle the topic of social media, its impact on society, and how we can make the best out of it. How long have you been online today? If we’re not on our phones, we’re scrolling on our laptops, computers, and tablets. Many people like to occupy their attention with fun, cute, and educational information, all of which are easily available on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. Have you ever noticed that you have trouble falling asleep, or that seeing […]
Read PostIn the past few years, there has been an emphasis in the wellness community on morning routines. What you do when you wake up is said to influence your mood and behavior for the rest of your day. We’ve compiled a list of morning habits you can incorporate into your routine in order to start your day bright and right. Drink A Cup of WaterYour bodies ability to function is dependent largely on your water intake. Drinking water first thing in the morning helps flush out the toxins accumulated while you slept as well as wake up your internal organs. There are countless of other benefits to drinking water in the morning. We love this article by The Healthline, which details the multitude of ways being a morning water drinker can […]
Read PostAs a mental health expert I have worked with many women who present well on the surface, but who are secretly depressed inside. Women of color are half as likely to seek treatment for their depression, and are still held to higher expectations in their professional and personal lives. Depression grows in isolation, so keeping it a secret can be harmful. It will eventually seep through the cracks and lead to emotional and physical burnout. So instead of pretending that it’s not there, it may be helpful to ask a different question: How can I manage my depression in a loving way, while continuing to take care of business and pursue my dreams? We asked five women to share their personal tips and suggestions: 1. I start with the most […]
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